Hey Alphas – You Don’t Need to be Superman

Alpha males who feel like they’re carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders, this one’s for you.

“I can’t stand to fly

I’m not that naive

Men weren’t meant to ride

With clouds between their knees

I’m only a man in a silly red sheet

Digging for kryptonite on this one-way street

Only a man in a funny red sheet

Looking for special things inside of me.”

       –Five for Fighting 

You want to provide.  You want to protect.  You want to be the one everyone leans on.  You want to have all the answers.  You want to build.  You want to create.  You want to compete.  You want to be in constant motion.  You want to revolutionize.

But those desires, well-meaning as they are, usually come with hefty costs in the form of overwhelm, exhaustion, burnout, and unhealthy coping mechanisms.

I’m here to tell you that you can achieve beyond what you could ever envision for yourself by softening.

Stay with me; I know that word may not be a part of your DNA right now.

It doesn’t mean being passive.  It doesn’t mean giving up.  It doesn’t mean silencing yourself.

None of that.  Much the opposite, actually.

It means understanding that we’re all spiritual beings having a human experience and making choices in accordance with that belief.

When we understand and choose to put it into practice, that’s when we start to attract differently.

Your ultimate power isn’t in your control.  That’s fear-based and not the place you want to attract from.

Your ultimate power is in your surrender.  It’s in your ability to accept that where you are is where you’re meant to be.  It’s in your willingness to ask for help.  To be vulnerable.  To recognize and share how you feel.  It’s your willingness to shift over to the passenger’s seat and let the universe do the driving.  It’s in the flowing.

Patience.  Trust.  Intuition.  Receiving.  Allowing.  Relaxing.  Surrendering.  Nurturing.

When you blend those energies with what you already embody – the ambition, the experience, the technical expertise, that’s when you step into your greatest power of influence.

You didn’t come here to be Superman.  You didn’t come here to fly and make it look easy.  Take off the cape.

In my coaching, I help alphas learn to leverage the laws of the universe.  So they can achieve more.  Impact more.  All while relaxing and enjoying more.  Yes, it’s possible.

Let’s chat.